Tips & Tricks

MAKE IT FUN

Professional photos aren’t cheap and are probably something you don’t do very often. That can make it feel like getting the perfect shots and having a flawless session is absolutely critical. But the reality is, sessions rarely go exactly as planned—and that’s okay! Instead, focus on having fun. Genuine laughter and joy are what make the most beautiful photos.

BRING PROPS

If your child focuses better when they have something to hold, feel free to bring along props. A sign, a photo, a bouquet of flowers, or their favorite stuffed animal can all work wonderfully to keep their attention and add a personal touch to the photos.

LET YOUR CHILD SMILE NATURALLY

For the first few photos, reminding your child to smile might work—but kids often get tired of being told to smile on command. The more we prompt them, the less natural their smiles tend to become. The best way to capture genuine, joyful expressions is to let the smiles come naturally. That’s when you get the real moments where your child truly looks like they’re having fun.

LET THEM EXPLORE

Let your child pick up the leaf, kick the pebble, or stop to smell the flower. Allowing them to explore and interact with their surroundings often leads to the most authentic, heartfelt photos.

NO BRIBES

While offering a bribe might help your child cooperate in the moment, it’s usually only effective for a short time. Bribes can make children impatient, eager to rush through the experience just to get the reward. It can also create confusion if we repeatedly say things like, “Just one more picture and then we’ll get/do ___,” especially when it’s unlikely that will truly be the last photo taken.

BRING SNACKS

This is especially important for evening sessions, particularly those that fall around or just after dinnertime. Bringing a mess-free snack, like a granola bar, puffs, or crackers, can go a long way. I’m always happy to pause the session for a quick snack break to keep everyone happy and avoid any “hangry” moments!

LET THE PHOTOGRAPHER LEAD

This one’s a biggie and I know it’s not always easy. With years of experience working with young children (and a three year old of my own), I totally understand how tough it can be when you're constantly trying to direct your child. To help reduce stress and capture the best photos, I kindly ask that you let me take the lead during the session. I’ll guide things in a way that keeps it fun and relaxed—I promise, you’re in good hands.

TALK ABOUT THE SESSION (BUT NOT TOO MUCH)

Give your child a heads-up about the photo session, but keep the conversation light and relaxed. I suggest mentioning it the day of, letting them know what to expect and why you're doing the photoshoot. Try not to make it feel like a big event, especially if they’re not used to being in front of the camera, as too much buildup can lead to nerves or anxiety.

USE A FAVORITE TOY

This is especially helpful for little ones, particularly toddlers. Bringing along a favorite toy can make a big difference—it gives me something fun to use during the session to help spark smiles and capture those playful, silly moments.

LOTS OF ACTIVITY

When we think of the “perfect” family photo, we often imagine everyone posed, still, and smiling. While those photos are lovely, I prefer capturing your child just being themselves (though I do include some posed shots too). Moments filled with movement, play, and games, combined with a few gentle poses, create truly beautiful and authentic pictures.

BE PATIENT

While your session is scheduled for a set amount of time, I’m always happy to be flexible if it means getting great photos. Rushing can create stress not just for you, but for your child too, and that rarely leads to the best moments. If your little one isn’t quite cooperating, no worries. We’ll take our time, follow their lead, and work with them until we get the shots we’re after.

REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY

Some kids (especially toddlers) respond really well to a little reverse psychology. I turn it into a fun game by telling them not to smile. Whenever I catch a hint of a smile tugging at the corners of their mouth, I'll remind them they’re not supposed to be smiling. Most kids can’t keep it up for long and end up bursting into laughter.

ARRIVE EARLY

Things can get a little hectic (especially with little ones) so I recommend arriving 10–15 minutes early for your session. Giving yourself a few extra minutes helps everyone feel more relaxed and ready for a great experience.

DON'T FRET ABOUT BEHAVIOR

Even the most well-behaved child can have an off moment during a photo session. Whether they’re not listening, refusing to smile, getting a little sassy, or just not in the mood, I completely understand. Kids are unpredictable, and their behavior in that moment is never a reflection of your parenting. There’s absolutely no need to feel embarrassed—I promise, no judgment here.